Last day of June

Seeing as it is 11:00 pm on June 30th, I should write another post, so I can at least get two in this month.

I'll dedicate this to my feelings on pregnancy #2 so skip this post if you don't care.

1. Being pregnant and not working is much easier than being pregnant and working. Russell usually didn't care if I didn't get dressed or off the couch if I wasn't feeling good. It is a little more relaxing even with Russell running around.

2. I was much better prepared on what to expect so I wasn't so miserable. I knew how to better handle the early pregnancy stomach unhappiness, the increased nasal/sinus congestion/mucus, etc. It made it nicer, so I generally felt better.

3. Preparing for another kid has not been as exciting probably because we had most everything (besides cute girl clothes), but it has made it a lot easier since we have everything. All we had to do was a little rearranging and then getting other things out of storage and cleaning them off.

4. Having your first child 3 weeks early and then not having your second child early really stinks! I have been pregnant 2 weeks longer than I was with Russell, and I am done with it. I have told her repeatedly it is time to come out, but she doesn't seem to listen very well.

For those who don't know, ever since 28 weeks I have been seeing a maternal fetal medicine doctor because some doctor (not my good old family medicine doctor) noticed that my thyroid hormone levels are not in the range doctors like it to be in while you are pregnant. The funny thing, though, is that it is pretty much where my thyroid level is normally. Anyway, I haven't enjoyed all the extra appointments and ultrasounds or even the doctor visits. Every single time I have gone he keeps telling me, "Well, everything looks just the same as last time." All the ultrasound techs say, "She looks perfect and everything is measuring right on." While it has been nice to have more than just the one ultrasound, it keeps annoying me when I keep going in to be told what I have already known.

Tomorrow is my 39 week appointment. I'm hoping that they'll keep me there because I'm dilated to a 4 or 5, but they probably won't even do more than just take my blood pressure and then feel around on my stomach. Hmpf.

We've done quite a few picnics since I've been pregnant...

This picture was taken about 3 weeks ago so you can imagine how huge I am now. Ben keeps commenting on how big my stomach is. And, this time around it is all pretty compactly in my stomach region instead of lots of growth all over my body.  I still haven't gained as much weight as I did with Russell (yay!), and I have had lots less water retention/swelling. So, while it has been miserable these last few weeks, it hasn't been as bad as it could be.

Summer Vacation

Sleeping in with no alarm to wake us up
Using Russell's new big boy bed
Meat cooked on the grill with one of Ben's home teaching families
Making Russell go to bed while it is still light and the other kids are still playing outside
Eating all our meals together as a family
Resting at any time during the day

Visiting the farmer's market each week to see what is new
Air conditioning is a must but we've opened the windows on several cool nights to enjoy the breeze
Checking on our garden: so far radishes, tomatoes, zucchini, squash, corn, beans, beets, & pumpkin
Ate graduation party foods including their yummy cakes
Taking walks to play at the park
Interruptions to our family time whenever we go outside (these people can't leave us alone!)
Once a week visits to the doctor now until baby comes
NBA play-offs are on our one reliable tv channel

This is how we usually find him in the morning

Gooey Louie with Camille over Memorial Day

friends from church

I caught him watching the birds

Oh Somebody (else) had a Birthday!

Ben reached the ripe old age of 35 last Friday. He is sad that he will never be able to catch up to Tracy in age.

It wasn't that exciting of a day, since Ben worked and then we drove 3.5 hours to Wausau, but Ben appreciated all the birthday wishes he got. I had to think out of the box to make him a special cake since he prefers pie over cake. I found this recipe for Lemon Meringue Cupcakes quite a while ago and decided I would make them since that is his favorite pie.

They were delicious! I didn't quite get enough of the lemon curd filling inside the cupcakes. It was the perfect combination so Ben could enjoy his 'pie' and I could still make cake. The only thing I will do differently next time is buy lemon curd instead of making it myself. It was too time consuming especially with a sick Russell and trying to get things ready so we could leave as soon as Ben got home from school.

Now I have accomplished one of the goals I set at the beginning of the year making a special cake for everyone's birthday.

What a weekend

Tonight Ben and I were talking about how nice this weekend was. We didn't do a single thing for the apartments. Instead we spent our time doing normal weekend things. And, the weather was beautiful! Sunny and mid 60-70 degrees both days.

This was Eyota's city wide garage sale weekend. 63 of the houses in town had garage sales and several were multi-family ones. I didn't even realize there were that many houses in Eyota! The main goal was to find a new bed for him (with mattress). We wandered around without much luck and then stumbled upon one house where the lady had a bunch of vintage toys. We bought  this little people house because Russell loves playing with the one at Mom and Dad's every time we go over.

It isn't quite the same, but it has a 'doo-dah' (doorbell) and a garage, both of which are the most important parts of the house according to Russell. It had two bags of people/cars/house accessories that came along with it. We did end up finding a bed for Russell, plus one more crib sheet, a baby gate, another bookshelf for the kids room, a pair of pants for Russell to wear to church, a sleeping bag for Russell (free!) and a dumb riding toy that I couldn't pull Russell off of. It'll probably end up at Savers when summer is over.

We also spent time in our garden plot. They had a work day tilling each one, setting up the fencing, mulching the paths, etc. We spent quite a few more hours afterwards pulling weeds out. It would have been more relaxing if I wasn't 8 months pregnant, but it was fun nonetheless. Russell enjoyed spending lots of time outside. He and Ben managed to get some good sun. Russell also discovered worms. He really likes them. His biggest contribution was dumping our buckets of weeds into the wheelbarrow once they got full.

Ben and I both taught lessons at church today, plus Ben spoke in Sacrament meeting and participated in a musical number. Then we had lunch with some friends in our ward. We had taken a meal over to them after they had their baby, and Russell immediately disappeared with their two boys upstairs in their toy room that day. The same thing happened again today when we got to their house.

Later we went to one of Ben's former students Stars and Stripes Ceremony for American Hertage Girls. It is similar to getting an Eagle award in Boy Scouts. It was interesting to hear their perspective on helping young women find a righteous contributing role in society. I was happy because they had cupcakes afterwards :) We also went for a little drive through the country to look at a decent house that is for sale within our budget. There were lots of farmers out getting fields plowed, and crops planted.

It was a nice weekend after lots of weekends with gross weather and far too many things filling up our time here at these apartments. It makes me look forward to three weeks from now when school is over and every day will feel like a weekend day having Ben home.

Oh somebody had a birthday

It's hard to believe that this little screaming chubb is two already.

I had high hopes that this birthday would be a fun day for us to enjoy together. Last year we were watching another family of kiddos on his birthday, so his celebration was a quick little thing as we tried wrangling 5 additional kids. Alas, this years celebration ended up happening 2.5 hours later than it should have been thanks to crazy apartment stuff.

Amid all Russell's late night crankiness, he did enjoy the balloons we hung, the 'happy birthday' banner I made at Super Saturday last fall, looking at his little pile of presents all day, and his farm cake. He was especially eager to blow out the candles and did it a few times before we finished singing.

Can't take his eyes off that cake!

Tractors

We also had some cake and ice cream with his friends over in the old people building on Saturday. I made some cute little cupcakes with dum dum balloons. He couldn't keep his hands off those all afternoon.

He has transformed from a screaming little baby to an affectionate ball of energy. He loves to give hugs and kisses and will randomly insist on giving baby sister (aka my stomach) big hugs and kisses in between running around with all his various vehicles. While it seems he is always on the go, he will still snuggle up to us when he needs a little rest. He has finally learned that nursery is great, but still cries right when Ben drops him off. And, he is way too smart for his little age. He will read his books and randomly walks around reciting them and singing songs. The doctor confirmed that he is still our little chubber (90th percentile).

Though I was sad to not have a baby girl first, I wouldn't trade my boy for any little girl in the whole world. I love him and he will always be my baby!

Mardi Gras meal

Way back when it was Mardi Gras season, we had a fun little Mardi Gras meal for dinner one night. It was kind of an impromptu themed-dinner. I don't think much of it was legitimate Mardi Gras food, but it was all southern/Louisiana inspired food.

First we had Swamp Stuff. One family in Destin served this to us and he first had it in Louisiana. Basically it is a red beans and rice mix cooked up with whatever meat (we use half a kielbasa) added in towards the end of cooking. Then you fry an egg (or two) and serve it on top of the beans and rice with grated cheese on top. You aren't supposed to cook the egg all the way and then cut it open and let the yolk ooze into the rice and beans and let it cook there. We both like our eggs cooked thoroughly, so we just fry until hard and it is still delicious. You can also add hot sauce into the dish to give it added flavor. Ben is a BIG fan of this dish. He is always asking to have it for dinner, and it is pretty easy to make.

Next off was some maque choux. We loosely followed Emeril's recipe. It was a nice veggie addition to the Swamp Stuff. I had never made it, but it too was super easy to make.

I also baked up a King Cake. This was really the only reason why we had a Mardi Gras meal. It didn't turn out how I wanted it, but it was still delicious. We didn't have a little baby to bake into the cake, but we did add a coin and Ben found it. Guess he is making the cake next year.

Ben did a good job making me look hardly pregnant in this picture.

We will probably have an annual Mardi Gras meal every year. It reminds me a lot of my mission because people in Andalusia we very much into it. Next year, we'll have to plan ahead. I'm thinking some moon pies for dessert along with the King Cake Ben has to provide.

Things I have learned

I've learned a few interesting (to me) things over the past couple of days that I would like to share.

1. The altitude here in Rochester, MN is higher than in Phoenix, AZ. I was hoping that altitude may have been why I couldn't get a recipe from Ben's Mom to turn out, but that wasn't the reason.

2. Cities complicate all sorts of things. Take gardening, for example. We got a garden plot in the community garden this year. But, we have to follow all these rules and regulations, plus they want us to go to a gardening class since this is our first year. What ever happened to digging up the dirt, planting seeds, tending to the plants, and then harvesting the bounties?

3. When you get a wart frozen off, the liquid nitrogen isn't used to kill the wart. It is used to kill the healthy cells around the wart to rush white blood cells to the area and then have those same white blood cells attack the wart virus itself. I just hope my wart is gone for good now.

4. Old McDonald apparently only has tractors, garages, trucks, and trains on his farm. At least, that is what Russell thinks. We can never get any animals on that dang farm when we sing the song anymore since he always picks what is on the farm now.

I want YOU to go to BYU.