As a date night in (our first officially labelled date night in), we took the love languages quiz. I found a pdf that I could print out and then we both sat down and took it.
Now, I had taken it several years ago at an enrichment, so I knew what my love language was. Ben had never taken it, so he didn't know anything at all. After tallying up our own scores, we guessed what each others was.
Ben's is obvious, and I got one first guess. He is bilingual, so I had to make another guess, but that one is fairly obvious, too. It took Ben three guess to guess mine. It was a very enlightening evening in our relationship.
But, it got me thinking about what Russell and Meghan's love languages are. I would guess Russell might be a quality time especially since he had been on a spree asking us "You want a pay?????"really emphasizing the play. Meghan's is probably also quality time and also physical touch. I'm only guessing because I can never get time away from her and she always wants to be held.
So, can you guess what our love languages are? Here are your options:
1. Gifts
2. Quality Time
3. Words of Affirmation
4. Acts of Service
5. Physical Touch
4 comments:
Joanna - quality time / service;
Ben - Gifts, especially gifts of smoked salmon.
Emily and I took this a few years ago. She was QT /Service;
I was 4/5, w/ gifts being the odd one out. But trust me, I love gifts too.
I think you might be words of affirmation. I have no idea what Ben might be, but I think most men are physical touch.
I still haven't figured out if Preston's four love languages means he's easy to please or exceptionally needy.
I'm guessing Ben's is acts of service and yours is physical touch. Total guess.
Jacob also has multiple, three if I remember correctly.
Mine is the same as Emily's.
We just had a relief society activity about this. Then we played a game and someone tried hugging me to make me laugh. Little did she know that physical touch is NOT my love language, but pretty much my hate language. I didn't laugh.
Mine is service with quality time being second. Maybe it's genetic. Brian's is definitely physical touch.
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